Can someone please give me a opinion on what i think about christianity.?

ok im a 14 year old christian guy. but i have a little bit diffrent view on christianity then most christians do. I think basically that Christianity is moving farther and farther away form what God inteneded it to be. One way i see this is is in my opinion i see Christian extremists the people who are making the world angry. It is peoople like extreme Christians that make people look down on reality. I see Extreme Christians like the pharisees in the Bible. For example when they were angry with the disciples that they didnt wash thier hands before eating. They was a extremley stupid reason that they got angry and blew a simple thing out of proportions. And from what i see alot of christians (not all of them) blowing simple things out of proportion, which contributes to why people look down on christians. I also noticed that christians cant stand to see the world change around them, and retaliate when things do change. I think Christians need ot open there eyes and think outside the box a little bit more and see that the world does not change around them. Jesus understood that the world changes and that time changes and he explained that. But it seems these days christians dont seem to get that. I think that what happens is that some people try to hard and they fail and what there main inttention was in the first place. Also Christians are becoming more and more quick to judge others. Last time i checked Jesus said to remove the plank in you eye before you can remove the speck from your brothers eye. So basically my idea is that we are becoming less and less of what God intended Christianity to be. And that it will continue like this until Christians realize that this is happening.